Hi Everyone
This is the first time I am writing on this platform thus I would like to introduce myself first in brief before moving ahead to write on my Second Mother & her influence on me that brought positivity in my life.
I am a resident of Nagpur, India. Happily married having two sons. A Home Manager & after taking care of my famiy & managing all my home responsibilities I try my best to do good for the Society, the underprivileged, the differently able in whatever possible way I can just as a gesture to forward a little bit to others from what Good Life has offered to me.
Now coming back on the subject which is more important rather than writing on self.
MOTHER… Everyone knows that Mother needs no introduction & no quantum of words can describe “MOTHER” even if anyone tries to. I deeply love my Mother whom I lost in mid of 2014.
Aapa [ Aapa is a Urdu word for Sister ] is with me since my marriage. Going by worldly relations she is my Sister In Law but that is not all. She is a Teacher, a Friend, a Philosopher, a Guide, a Mentor & much much more… infact I am short of words. I admire her the most.
I will not tell that life has been very cruel to me most of the time because I know that it has been very cruel to many many others in this huge world but I had a lot of pains and sufferings as a part & parcel of my life. I have a Great belief in God. Whenever anything went wrong I told myself let it be, God is there & He will make things okay for me & care for me. People used me like a disposable stuff. Aapa is the one person who had always be with me after my marriage though physically we live far away from each other. Whenever I had a Bad day after marriage I used to cry a lot & pray to God. I don’t know how but within hurts, I used to receive call from Aapa & she used to make me comfortable, not less than a miracle.
Life moved on & as time passed away her position in my life changed. She continued to inspire me, motivate me, care for me, love me, put courage in me, fill positivity in me. She did a lot to change my life to Better that is why she is too special to me.
Present Scenario…… I too have my own health issues since years as everyone has some or the other issues in life but last two months were too horrible for me. Since 1st August when I was admitted to Hospital for a day my world was turned upside down both mentally & physically. I was in a depression like situation with unknown fears that kept haunting me like anything. It followed by Sleepless nights, loss of appetite, Anxiety, Frustration, Interest in nothing and more. I was completely blank to understand what was happening to me. Doctor’s help also was of no help to me as they too were not finding anything problematic in me. Again where everyone failed Aapa did a miracle for me. She repeatedly convinced me that nothing is wrong with me. I just need to throw out the fear from my mind, relax, keep calm & most importantly believe in God. She further advised me to join her Online Yoga classes even though my physical fitness was not allowing me to perform yoga. She advised me to have meditation, throw out the unnecessary stuff from my mind and heart… just adopt the policy of forgive & forget. Don’t think what others are saying or commenting on me, just be yourself & live the way you love to.
I simply followed her with no questions asked & today though I am not completely okay I am feeling much better. I will keep following her. Everyone needs a helping hand & love in life. I am more than happy to have Aapa in my life & wish everyone should have their own Aapa.
After my Mother got married me @ Nagpur the lovable person who cared for me as a Mother is none other than Aapa….. that is why I call her “MY SECOND MOTHER”
I Love And Respect Her A Lot.
Sakina Amin